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亲爱的格菲尔特,我怎么知道什么时候,怎样,为什么要结婚?真诚的,困惑的,亲爱的,困惑的,问布默。谁是布默,你问?先生。Gefilte asks me that on… 每周的基础。简短的回答是,在我结婚的前几天,他是我写作/饮酒小组的一个可爱的人。关于他,我记得的是,他知道如何扔掉几瓶啤酒,写关于父子吵架的故事。我不太了解布默。当然不是很好…>> Read More我爱上了我的同事……但他结婚了
亲爱的格菲尔特,承认这并不容易,but I need advice desperately.我找到了一个我非常爱的人,but he's married.他不知道我有这种感觉,什么都没有发生… between us.有一次我们碰触到的是他递给我一把电源柜的钥匙(我们一起工作)。他是个好人,非常聪明有趣,他得到了我,which is rare. (I consider myself very nerdy and awkward.) I never thought I would ever fall for someone else's husband.我们…>> Read MoreEverything Makes Me Angry And I Don't Know How to Stop Feeling This Way
Dear Gefilte,I never considered myself an angry person before now.But lately,I feel like everything makes me mad—my kids,the weather,this insane presidential election.到一天结束时… I feel myself shaking with rage.Do you have any advice besides deep breaths and channeling my inner lotus?-grrr亲爱的grrr,你不会吓到我的。Neither does your anger.我不是医生,也不在电视上表演,但我会开处方:24小时不提供新闻-四杯……>> Read More我想改信犹太教,但我的天主教家庭不赞成
亲爱的盖菲尔特,我今年21岁,我想皈依现代正统犹太教。它让我觉得自己是一个更好的人;it gives me strength and compassion.I've faced skepticism,作为一个女人… sometimes even hidden discrimination,但它从来没有让我远离,实际上鼓励我为改变而努力。不幸的是,my family doesn't feel the same—they're practicing Catholics,and my mother once told me she would rather celebrate my funeral than watch me convert.I live with my family and I'm studying at…>> Read More我不知道如何放下我的过去
亲爱的格菲尔特,我该如何放下过去?-被抓了亲爱的被抓了,你刚刚被抓了。现在回家重新开始。带着爱和施马茨,格菲尔泰克,maybe it's not that easy.… And I'm going to piss off some yoga teachers and monkfish when I say this,但我不认为放手过去是可能的。对我们中的一些人来说,这是一层厚厚的藻类阻挡了光线,把我们困在了咸的恐惧之中。对我们很多人来说,就像我们生活的阑尾…>> Read MoreMy Son Is Obsessed with Labeling People.我该怎么办?
Dear Gefilte,My partner was raised Conservative Jewish and I am a Catholic-turned-atheist.我们最近和孩子们讨论过这个问题,现在我们7岁的孩子沉迷于给人们贴标签… 宗教,nationality,sexual orientation,体型肤色。我知道他只是好奇,但有时也会觉得有些冒犯。What should I do?真诚地,Hello My Name Is Confused Dear Hello,Please get thee to an art supply store.我需要你拿一些东西。即:3支不同颜色的钢笔5…>> Read More我不知道怎么跟人分手。救命!
亲爱的格菲尔特,我44岁,straight,单身男性。我仍然希望能遇到一个能和我共度余生的人。I am not afraid of intimacy;我不怕被拒绝。我什么… am afraid of is having to reject other people. I know this keeps me from"getting out there." Even on a first date,if a woman is clearly interested in a second date when I'm not,弄清楚如何说晚安是一件既焦虑又尴尬的事情。当谈到分手时…>> Read More我单身没问题,但情人节让我沮丧。我该怎么办?
Dear Gefilte,I hate Valentine's Day.我觉得我一整年都单身很好,但是2月14日让我很痛苦。I've tried taking myself out for a date or getting a… 惠特曼的采样器,但它让我更沮丧。有什么关于如何度过这一天的想法吗?真诚地,Loveless READ: My Major Issue with My Son's Valentine's Day Homework Assignment Dear Loveless,真的,你的意思是你不喜欢纪念天主教烈士,山羊鞭打节,厌恶女性的画家画驴,把它当作艺术来神圣化?Let me…>> Read More我的宗教间家庭负担不起成为犹太教堂会员
亲爱的Gefilte,我是犹太人,我的搭档不是。我们负担不起犹太教堂的会费,我担心没有它,我的孩子将没有犹太人身份证。我们该怎么办?… 真诚地,不管会费与否读到:那次我犯了一个犹太母亲的大错亲爱的会费-Y,请给我一份你过去一周的经常开支清单,包括所有杂费咖啡,气体,鲱鱼,发胶。如果你是一个真正的犹太人,you can wander in a desert for 40 years without a…>> Read MoreMy Son Doesn't Like His Stepfather–What Do I Do?
亲爱的格菲尔特,我儿子不喜欢我的第二任丈夫,也不愿意和他交往。我丈夫觉得他的家人和孩子把我们当作夫妻,我儿子也应该这么做。我该怎么办… 怎么办?深情地,捕捉阅读:Carla Naumburg关于谨慎的养育和为什么可以忽略你的孩子有时亲爱的捕捉,Here is a little questionnaire I once wrote for my mother's potential lovers after my father died: 1.你的业余爱好是什么?2.Are you allergic to anything?三。Why are you pursuing my…>> Read More从胚胎收养到代孕,是什么让孩子成为犹太人?
亲爱的格菲尔特,我有一个假设性的问题要问你。My wife and I were having dinner with some friends the other night who had recently welcomed a new baby into their lives.期间… 交谈,it came out that the child had been born after a process of embryo adoption,另一对夫妇的胚胎,完全与我们的任何一个朋友没有遗传关系,had been implanted in and borne by the mother for a full nine months.现在,这对夫妇不是犹太人,所以对他们来说不是问题……>> Read More我的鳏夫未婚夫把某人撞倒了。我不知道该怎么办
亲爱的格菲尔特,我有一个伦理/哲学上的两难境地。我和一个鳏夫订婚了,我很高兴能一起开始我们的生活,抚养他的小儿子。然而,I recently learned that he… 让一个他在我面前见过的女人怀孕了。他告诉我是因为,与他假设的相反,那个女人生了孩子。他想支付法律规定的任何儿童抚养费,而与孩子无关。ios下载beplay对我来说,很难让他和他有多棒…>> Read More我为我的朋友做鬼魂,现在我为之感到内疚。Help.
亲爱的格菲尔特,所以,我说,有点“鬼魂”我的朋友。我们好几年都很亲密,但她始终是戏剧的磁漩涡。In the beginning I felt for her because she lost a… 一群乱七八糟的朋友(惊喜)but eventually I realized she was bringing this drama into my life,我觉得我再也不能信任她了。所以我不再打电话了。And texting.发电子邮件。几次她会向我伸出援手,我很奇怪,很遥远…>> Read More当我真的不想的时候,我该如何为我的犹太伙伴放弃圣诞节呢?
亲爱的盖菲尔特,我该如何处理为我的犹太伙伴放弃圣诞节的问题?~ Not-so-MerryREAD: I Want to Celebrate Christmas,But My Husband Doesn't Dear NSM,By any… chance,are you sleeping with Moishe le Grinch?你的搭档需要从圣诞老人的靴子里快速踢一脚,然后在车里睡一晚。OK,我不是很虔诚。或犹太人,穆斯林,Quaker,摩门教徒或者是我的吉菲利特主义者。毕竟,我想,“对别人做你想让他们对你做的事,”得到…>> Read MoreI Hate Feeling Old,但不知道如何改变我的观点
亲爱的格菲尔特,随着我生命中每十年(从30岁或20岁开始)的临近,我遇到了一个“老”的难题。问题是我越来越近了… 我甚至连这封信都写不下。它是*!老的。I feel fine physically,但不是精神上。你有什么建议吗?《老魂记》:拥抱我内心的老太太,亲爱的老魂,你有没有看过一个精致却不被重视的节目叫,"Fire Safety and Time Travel With a…>> Read MoreI'm So Angry About All of the Gun Violence,But I Don't Know What to Do
亲爱的格菲尔特,我现在很生气。我不能相信我们所看到/经历的所有暴力。前几天晚上我开车时听说参议院投票反对… 限制恐怖分子嫌疑人的持枪权利。我开始敲打方向盘。Suspected terrorists?!这个问题似乎很大,但又很简单。我不仅不知道如何改变我们国家的道路,I don't know how to keep from letting my anger and sadness get the best…>> Read More欺骗你的配偶可以吗?
Dear Gefilte, I have a relative with what I think is a very big problem.She says her husband has been cheating off & on throughout their marriage.他告诉她“你做的太多了… 这“让我发疯了。What are your thoughts?还好吗?她很沮丧,想结束他们漫长的联盟。真诚地,附带损害说明:避免跨信仰婚姻中的冲突亲爱的附带物,很快我就认识了。盖菲尔特我们去了一家酒吧,在盒装酒上吃了一顿苦头,然后…>> Read More我害怕感恩节与我的家人。我该怎么办?
亲爱的Gefilte,土耳其+与家人的眼神交流=aaaaaaaaagh!请帮帮我。真诚的,假日Wimpread:等待永远不会到来的道歉亲爱的Wimp,这里有一个… few Thanksgiving memories I have just drudged up in your honor.1。感恩节那天,我决定为我的大家庭试一试我的新神奇女郎,发现我不能飞了。2.感恩节那天,我仍然被困在厌食症困扰的肉汁船里,发誓要发短信…>> Read More我正在转换,但我觉得在社区里我不被接受。Help.
亲爱的盖菲尔特,我热爱改革犹太教,我要改变信仰。我喜欢的是我被社区主席接受了,但我最讨厌的是感觉像很多人… 假装我不应该在那儿。我觉得在观察的时候等待一个人表现的完美是不现实的,因为它会造成压力,而且很尴尬。我感到绝望。我不知道该怎么办。我不能让每个人都快乐,但我可以展示我自己的最佳版本……>> Read MoreMy Son's Been Married for 5 Years,但还是没有孩子。Help.
亲爱的格菲尔特,我儿子已经和他可爱的妻子结婚五年了,我记得他们刚结婚的时候,my daughter-in-law told me they had discussed having children.现在是五… 多年过去了,我仍然不是一个泡泡。她不顾一切地要组建一个家庭,因为37岁时她的生物钟滴答作响。每次她向他提起这件事,他要么改变话题,要么开始争论。Their financial position is good and their lifestyle and…>> Read More我担心我的非犹太妻子在寺庙里感到无聊
亲爱的盖菲尔特,我妻子不是犹太人,但她很愿意和我一起去服务。We're expecting our first kid this year,我们讨论过送他去希伯来学校,也是。… 唯一的问题是,每次我们走进犹太教堂,I get so nervous that she'll hate it or feel left out because it's too Jew-y.尤其是当他们说希伯来语的时候。我真的不知道这一切意味着什么;我只是喜欢那种熟悉的感觉。Should I just go by myself…>> Read MoreI'm Pregnant and I Feel Like My Family Abandoned Me
亲爱的格菲尔特,我怀了孕,但这几个月来病得很重。对我丈夫来说这是一场真正的斗争,my toddler,and me to even get a meal together.My parents live… 州外,了解这种情况,但是没有兴趣帮忙。I've talked to them about this type of disappointment I've felt in the past,在某种程度上我觉得自己被抛弃了。我觉得有时候,for the most basic of times (sick 官网下载beplay体育ios版pregnancy,出生…>> Read More我32岁。追寻梦想为时已晚吗?
亲爱的格菲尔特,我32岁了,我恨自己以前没有追求我的梦想。我一直想成为一名歌手、作曲家和音乐家,but after almost two years of voice lessons,… 写歌课,和仪器实践,我严肃地质疑专注于音乐的决定。For one,我不是一个有着可训练声音的16岁孩子,无限收入,and free time.I hate the sound of my own voice,even if other people are a bit more forgiving.当人们(包括…>> Read More亲爱的盖菲尔特:我怎样才能成为无神论者家庭的犹太人?
Dear Gefilte,I am a college student,and I am new to Judaism. After some seriously long and extensive research,I feel like I have found my home. Even though I grew up as an atheist (surrounded… 我无神论的父母,他们仍然认为我是一个,我觉得我和上帝有联系。当你想出来的每个人都像犹太人一样抨击宗教时(残忍而不开明),你会怎么做?我的家人,我的大家庭,即使是我最好的朋友和大学室友。(我在一个小路德教会…>> Read More送货上门
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