薇诺娜·赖德已经作出了很多头条新闻最近的（并且得到了众多微博的主题），因为她在Netflix的原创系列主角“奇怪的事情“。 The show has basically gone viral–everyone is talking about it–and it’s been a sort of a reprisal for Ryder since her role in “黑天鹅“。
莱德，谁是出生的薇诺娜劳拉Horowitz和是犹太人，最近在接受采访New York Magazine她乔伊斯Byers公司，谁是一个小男孩谁去在热播电视剧失踪的母亲的角色。没有一个母亲自己，很多人都问她莱德如何“理解”是什么样子，对此她解释说，她作为一个阿姨的角色帮助：
“I’m getting asked a lot, ‘You don’t have kids, so how do you know how to act like a mother?’ I know nothing could compare, and I haven’t had that experience, but when my niece was born, I felt like I would jump in front of a car and die for this little person I didn’t even know yet.
其实我觉得巨大同情她。我觉得她是这些人是有自己的梦想[她的生命]之一。但她有孩子。And it made me think of all the women that I know who have kids, who when they talk about [anything negative about their lives as mothers], they always say, ‘But I love my kids, I wouldn’t trade them for the world.’ Like they feel guilty for even hinting that they’d want something outside of kids!这是一个奇怪的事情。”
这位44岁还接着说她有多讨厌的事实，妇女往往调节到定义的角色，限制他们，特别是当它有过于情绪和焦虑的事情，常常被羞辱了这些特质，然后标记 as “crazy.” She stated:
“我是被敏感或容易使有病的人羞辱妇女。它是如此奇怪的我。
There’s a line in the show where someone says [of her Stranger Things character], ‘She’s had anxiety problems in the past.’ A lot of people have picked up on that, like, ‘Oh, you know, she’s crazy.’ And I’m like, ‘Okay, wait a second, she’s struggling.’ Two kids, deadbeat dad, working her ass off.谁不急？
即使这个词，着急。这是一个不好的词。所以像所有的这些话 - 这是什么样的我试着用魂女郎做，为什么我如此投入在这本书中，并试图把它发[作为电影。我的整个观点是，这发生在每一个女孩，几乎是“。
而我最喜欢约莱德的采访是事实，她很舒服拥有她的挣扎与她的焦虑，抑郁，并在一定程度上使得它实力的敏感性，而不是让别人羞辱她好了。以往，媒体经常把她刻画成了不稳定，但实际上，能够雄辩地谈论她的斗争被刷新的复杂性。
莱德解释说，无论有多大困难就已经对她诚实地透露她的抑郁症，她也很高兴吧：
“I don’t regret opening up about what I went through [with depression], because, it sounds really cliché, but I have had women come up to me and say, ‘It meant so much to me.’ It means so much when you realize that someone was having a really hard time and feeling shame and was trying to hide this whole thing …
乃至一样，敏感，脆弱的东西。我确实有这些素质，我只是不认为有什么与他们错了。很多时候，我让他感觉太强烈，几乎一样，羞愧，但我只得到了这一点。”
更多的人喜欢莱德应该存在的，因为我们需要标准化的心理健康问题，而不是呼吁人们“疯狂”，只是说我们在某些方面的所有努力。
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