A common Jewish tradition is for parents to wait until thebristo announce the name of their newborn baby boy.That's right–for over a week,they keep the name a secret from friends and family and just about everyone who pops in to see the new addition to the family.
But waiting for eight whole days to announce a baby's name can be hard on the parents,and on all of the well-wishers.
So what gives?
Superstitions and Sensibility
First of all,it is a custom to give the baby a name at thebris.According to Jewish law,thebrishas to take place on the eighth day after the boy is born.So that means we give baby boys their names on the eighth day.
But why the secrecy?According toCantor Philip Sherman,who has been called "the busiest mohel in New York," Jews keep baby boys' names under wraps because,"keeping the name a secret is based on superstition,i.e.not giving theAngel of Deaththe opportunity to identify the child and kill him before thebris.Two practical reasons for not disclosing the name until thebrisare: 1.In case the parents decide on a last minute change,they will not have painted themselves into a corner by announcing the Jewish name in advance and 2.It helps the parents avoid meddling relatives (Read the following in a whiny voice:How come you're not naming the baby after Uncle Louie?)"
This Angel of Death business might sound a bit scary,but it's nothing more than abubbe meise(a superstitious belief).It probably stems from high infant mortality rates that were the norm until quite recently.It wasn't unusual for a mother or a baby to die shortly after a birth,and so all kinds of superstitious practices arose to try to ward off the risk of death.
Girl Time
In the spirit of egalitarianism,some families have the tradition of waiting until the eighth day to announce girls' names,too.Other families will announce a girl's name at the Torah service after her birth.Because the Torah is read on Monday,Thursday,and Saturday,这些家庭永远不必等待太久。In any event,there's no real rule about this.It's customary (and maybe just a sensible idea) to wait before broadcasting your choice to the world,but it's not actually an obligation,so if you're itching to tell,don't worry about it.
